Aaron approached me for help and asked me what to write for a birthday card. I told him the cliche stuff that most would write in a birthday card (i.e. well wishes, take care, etc.) I also gave him a tip to pen down special moments he shared with the birthday friend. This would make the card more personal.
He then asked me if I could help him write the message on the card itself. I hesitated, but after knowing that the birthday friend was not a close friend to him, I succumbed to his request (because Aaron was my good friend!).
This was a mistake I made! :(
Everyone likes to receive cards but a personalised card makes everything special and sincere by a notch.
Here are some tips for card writing:
- Original Message - message from your heart
- Plan your message - write your message on a scrap piece of paper before transferring it to the card. This will reduce your mistakes you may make on the card
- Special Moments - for the receiver to reminisce
- Use your own handwriting - a close friend would recognise your handwriting immediately
To everyone who's giving a card to a family or friend, I would like to say this:
The most important thing in any card is not only the choice of words that you use, but it is also when the words are written in your own handwriting. That makes the card a whole lot more special. This is because the unique handwriting on the card belongs to you! No matter how ugly or beautiful your handwriting is, use it. :) It will be loved from your loved one.